For me, I guess it’s about balance, learning how to find freedom within a relationship – if indeed another relationship presents itself.
I’m lucky I don’t find being alone challenging – I quite enjoy my own company, doing my own thing, traveling by myself.
I find it hard to feel restricted in any way, and this presented a challenge in our marriage.
I’m not saying that would be the case for all people but it was for me.
I’m realizing now, that at the end of the day I need to live for myself and allow love to come through if and when it’s meant to.
We’re all on a journey, each unique, all with different lessons along the way.
If something doesn’t feel right, then change it.
I like to feel free and unbound, but I chose the exact opposite.
The more I expanded my conscious awareness – the more I uncovered my authenticity and the more I became uncomfortable with the structured, rigid environment.
I had to pass through this structured world in order to realize what I really wanted, mining the gold from my previous relationship but now opening to experiencing a beautiful life in a completely unstructured way – more in line with my gypsy soul.
Seeing life from a different perspective – trusting myself, knowing it’s ok to go against the status quo and create a life that feels right for me.
There’s no right or wrong.
It’s entirely up to you to create the life you want.
It’s up to you to create a glorious new life if the old one no longer suits you. A new, high-vibrational life with no stuck or stagnant energy – removing all artifice, all construct and just living from your truth.
It’s just a choice.